2:45 pm Friday, 10th November, 2023
“Oh my God, are they…?” 🫣😲😏
Hey, it’s easy to get swept up in the raucous fun of a sex party – that’s all part of the experience, right? 😜 Still, you can enjoy the spectacle whilst still paying attention to your surroundings, and making sure everyone is playing safe. 🙌
Today, we’re talking all things sex party safety, for hosts and attendees alike. 👐 How do you keep physically clean? How do you make sure everyone uses protection and understands (and prioritizes) consent? 🙏 Let’s take a look… 🤔👇
Hopefully it should go without saying that you should shower before you arrive at a sex party. 🚿
Worried that you’ll be washing off those all-important pheromones? (Those are the chemicals in sweat that attract us to each other! 🥵) Well, don't worry, because their pull is strongest right after they’re released. 😉 So, scrub up before you get there, and we can get sweaty together. 💦
Hosts, lay out the tools to keep your space clean so guests can look after themselves – have stacks of baby wipes and tissues for wiping up, and clean towels for laying down, if needed. Hardwood or vinyl floors and wipe-down furniture is ideal – but if that’s not accessible to you, feel free to lay down sheets and rugs to protect the space you’re using from all the fluids flying about. 😜💦
All good sex parties have snacks, so do your best to keep the food separate. Zoning at a sex party is as good for staying clean as it is for making a space that flows naturally and is safe and accessible for everybody. 🥰
Everyone’s sex party kit will be different, but there’s a few staple items we recommend.
Good parties will have condoms and lube aplenty, but you can never have enough, right? 😉💧 Plus, then you can bring the ones you like best. 🙌 Bonus points if you include non-latex condoms too, in case anyone has an allergy. 🌟
Next, you’ll wanna bring your favorite toys – dildos, butt plugs, vibrators, the lot! ⚡ Bring the toys you like to use on playmates too – just make sure they’re clean before you pack them! ☝️🧼
💡 Sex Toy Tip: Save on the cleaning and use a condom with penetrative toys, switching rubbers between each playmate.
Feeling comfortable at a sex party starts with having the right people around you. It’s always best to go with someone you trust – that way, you can keep an eye on each other. 🤗 If you’re not able to do that, or you’re feeling a little nervous, check in with the organizers when you arrive, and they’ll be able to introduce you to someone trustworthy. 👋
Whoever you know at the party, you should set up communication with them in advance. Give yourselves a code for ‘I need to take a moment’ – then, when you catch their eye, you can sneak off for a breather. The best parties will place monitors who stay sober (and relatively uninvolved in the action) who are there to keep an eye on everything. 👌
The party might have pre-established safewords. Or, you can communicate your own to the hotties you’re playing with. 😉 If in doubt, the traffic light system is pretty universal amongst kinksters: green for ‘carry on’, yellow for ‘slow down’, and red for ‘stop immediately’. 🚦
Spotted someone irresistible? 🤤 When you’re trying to initiate something, we recommend the ‘ask once and only once’ rule. ☝️ If someone says no, then you gotta leave them alone. 🤷 They can always find you if they’re in a different mood later, and there’ll be plenty of other kinksters to have fun with all night anyway. 😜
📜 Sex Club Fact: ‘Ask once and only once’ is an official policy at a few good sex clubs – like Oasis Aqualounge in Toronto, for example.
Struggling with how to ask? A simple ‘can I touch you here?’ is a hot way to initiate. If they’re into it, they’ll either say yes, or they’ll suggest something else hot you can do together. 🥵 And if they say no, you can move on knowing where everyone stands. 😘
Ask and answer questions directly. Look, we’re all here searching for the same thing, right? There’s no need to be coy or shy! 😝
Above all, remember the baseline of consent: everyone should feel safe to say no at any time, for any reason. A simple ‘no thank you’ is all you need. 🙅
💡 Safety Tip – STI Testing: Open the conversation around STI testing when you’re chatting before the party, and only invite and play with people you trust. If you trust that everyone there will get tested, then at least you can know for sure what you’re up against. ✊
Respecting boundaries starts with your own. Set your own limits before you set off for the party. Maybe you’ve decided you’re not gonna get fully naked this time, or that you’re gonna pause and reassess how you’re feeling at a certain time in the evening. 🤔
Take a break if you need one. Hosts, you should ideally have a space for resting – a dark room or quiet corner somewhere. If anyone asks, just say: “I’m fine, I just need a minute alone”. 🖐️ People are really understanding of this kind of thing at a sex party – even more so than at any other party! 🤷
Time out lets you recharge your energy and gets you ready to jump right back into the heart of the horny action. 🤤
“Okay, who’s ready for Round 2?” 🔔🙋🥵
What are your best tips for a safe and clean sex party experience? Share all the juicy details with us in the comments… 💦😏👇
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Safety first always |
