1:53 pm Tuesday, 5th March, 2019
Being confident in the sack is knowing your worth, your abilities and what you are bringing with you into the bedroom.
But one of the biggest factors of feeling sexy when getting naked is self-confidence or lack of it for a lot of women. it is easy to doubt your appearance, your body shape, the imperfections and wobbly bits.
While the sex may be the ultimate goal, check out our tips, for a few things you can do to boost your self-esteem before the clothes come off.
Every. Single. Day. Every morning when you’re getting ready, make a note of one thing that you love about yourself. Your pretty teeth, long eyelashes, shiny hair, round booty, lovely toes, great style, perfectly arched eyebrows.
You don't need to spend hours getting ready before heading out, but style your hair, do your makeup and wear clothes you feel great in. This will make you feel prepared in case you bump into a hottie.
Literally, pretend that you feel sexy and confident until you do. Make eye contact with an attractive man, and smile. Strut around with your head held high and shoulders back. Reach out to the guy who you've had your eye on, on the site. Go about your life with the confidence of the sexy woman you want to be.
Masturbate, whenever you get the urge, or even when you have a spare moment, like in the bath or when you wake up a little earlier than your alarm. Invest in a toy or two, check out some porn or erotica. Learn what turns you on. Get your sexy hormones flowing through your veins, and risque thoughts swirling through your mind.
We can all be guilty of this, but thinking or speaking poorly of other women's looks can hurt your self-image as much as envying them does. Getting rid of that rating system will help you to stop focusing on the flaws, instead, find the positives.
Ever wonder why you see hotties with far-from-perfect lovers? That's because men (well, most of them) aren't really interested in a supermodel-perfect partner, likewise with women. That is because the saying is true, 'looks aren't everything'. Pay attention to women you class as having a sexy confidence but who aren't classically beautiful—it will teach you to appreciate your uniqueness.
What makes you feel confident? Let us know in the comments below.
