The pro's and con's of Tantra sex

Depends whether you're charging by the hour ;-). (Joke)

I gather Sting is an expert. Don't know the details. Doesn't it involve lingam and prostate massages and holding in your juices for as long as possible? I'd have thought that even during normal sex a bloke would hold back for as long as he can in order to prolong the pleasure, so really I'm unsure where "normal" sex ends and Tantric sex begins..............

Hope Sting is better at sex than he is singing !!!img src="imagesadultemoticons001.gif"

doesn't interest me in the slightest, much prefer getting down and dirty, and have to be honest, even if I ever decided to explore it ( which I seriously doubt), it wouldn't be through an experience through the site, alledgedly it is a spiritual experience, so would best be explored through my loving relationship with hubby, rather than the sex we have through here, though if you ever get into it, please blogg your experiences xx

Lilith: you mean "a sore epididymis" ?? (otherwise known as "blue balls" ??)

Have to confess my lingam gets enough worship as it is, but can never have too much of a good thing, I say :-)

Seriously, though, I think a lot of what you are practicing is common-sense intimacy. It's just that a lot of people - in trying to waste as little time as possible in the headlong rush to climax - simply don't take the time and trouble to create the right conditions and atmosphere. I agree that "pressure to perform" can lead to people trying too hard and thus missing out on many subtle nuances. Relaxation and taking one's time is the key, undoubtedly. I think this is within the reach of most people, but not everyone has a sufficiently enlightened partner with whom to share such sensations, so I can understand them seeking the services of a third party.

@tanholistic have to say that your ability to sell your service was all very convincing, however as soon as you mentioned that you charge for your service for me that trashed everything else you said... of course you would sing it's praises to sell your wares, rofl.... however I think you are missing the point, not many of us on here are looking to hook up with people for a spiritual, intimate experience, this is a sex site and really most of us just want to get off.... the kind of intimacey you are talking about is amazing, and should be treasured, with someone you love, sharing it with everyone you hook up with kinda lessons its importance don't you think?